Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Rising to the Occasion

Taken from one of my favorite books- Simple Abundance.

To be really great in little things, to be truly noble and heroic in the insipid details of everyday life, is a virtue so rare as to be worthy of canonization. - Harriet Beecher Stowe

In real life, serenity depends on coping and coping well. Rising to the occasion.

Consider the following scenarios. You have a flat tire on the way to an important business meeting. You find yourself locked out of the house. You discover that your husband's college roommate is coming for dinner in two hours. The pipes freeze. The puppy swallows an earring. Someone's sick or snowed in. You're asked to send money, switch car pool trips, show up for jury duty. One minute you're called out of town, the next you're asked to step in on a moment's notice to save the school bazaar.

Real life is the collision - day in, day out- of the improbable with the impossible. Long fellow believed that situations that call forth our coping abilities are "celestial benedictions" in dark disguises, sent not to try our souls, but to enlarge them.

We become more adept at rising to the occasion each time we see ourselves doing it. Every time we cope well with whatever real life throws our way, it's another deposit of confidence, creativity, and courage in our self esteem account.

Today, when you need to rise to the occasion, do it with style. Do it with a knowing smile. Confound them. Astound yourself. Make it look easy, and it will become so.

1 comment:

Mercedes said...

Just wanted to say hi and see how you were doing. Tuesdays with Morrie is an amazing book, it's one of my favorites. Hope everything is going good for you.
I miss you all.

♥ -Mercedes